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I've noticed that if any video has "teen" in the title, I don't feel comfortable watching it. I know that the participants are over 18, but it still feels wrong to me. Does anyone else have this hang up?
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The fierce irony makes me smile.
“Who is God?”
WHACK, WHACK, WHACK.
“God is LOVE. Remember that.” WHACK, WHACK.
--from Dead Man Walking by Sister Helen Prejean
It’s all irony and confusion from day one. The parent who cares least is often the most lavish and indulgent, while the parent who loves most inflicts pain and denies the child’s desires. To the infantile mind, love and security are signified by warmth, protection, and the gratification of needs. But for the baby to grow and develop there comes a time when the parent must push the fledging from the cradle.
If you would be strong, you must tax the muscles. If you would be smart, you must challenge the mind. Muscles are exhausted through effort, to the point that they fail and ache, but later, the effort pays off as the muscles respond to the demand and increase in mass. Likewise, the mind rages with frustration while striving to assimilate new knowledge, difficult concepts and complex skills. But again, as new understandings and skills are developed, the result is gratifying and wonderful.
Watch an accomplished athlete or dancer, how effortless their motions appear. And yet, such effortless grace results only from long hours of sweat. Read the most elegant prose or polished poetry. If it’s done well, it seems to have flowed spontaneously from the author’s pen. You will never know how many drafts or revisions there might have been, or how the author struggled to frame his thoughts. In any physical, intellectual or technological pursuit of mankind, progress is achieved only after effort, failure, and pain.
Sometimes, the pain simply has to be ignored. If our ancestors back in the mists of time had only retreated when they got their fingers burned, we wouldn’t have mastered fire. I doubt that I’d be typing this essay on a computer. If I were alive at all, I’d be prowling through the forest in search of raw meat. And if our ancestors hadn’t braved the whip hand of the tyrant, we wouldn’t be blessed with our current level of political dysfunction.
Yet, it also seems to me natural that we cling to notions of an authoritarian hierarchy. The continued survival of man depends on our capacity to cooperate with one another. Our political systems all prove imperfect, and yet, they have continued to carry us to ever higher levels of achievement. But on a personal level, when you have a choice, how do you decide when to submit, or when to assert your own judgment?
This question is further confounded by technological progress that enables women to be, in a modern society, the equals of men. Traditional gender roles are arguably obsolete. Men once did the hunting while the women baked the bread, but that’s not the way of things in an urban society. And the stereotype of the male as the provider and the female as the homemaker is a 1950’s myth. These days, two-earner households are the norm—and in fact, it always was, except for a brief period in the twentieth century.
So, when I read the blog entries here of ladies who desire a man to mentor them, I wonder just what it is they are looking for. Some want a strong hand—not just physically, but emotionally, because deep down, we equate love with pain—WHACK! WHACK!
But surely there’s more to it.
Questions for discussion and comment:
1) The opening quote is from a book about capital punishment. Compare and contrast the intent and purpose of capital punishment versus the intent of corporal punishment.
2) In Confucian ethics, it is proposed that harmony is achieved when people accept and act in accordance with their station in the family and in society. Education is also of paramount importance. Compare and contrast Confucian and Judeo-Christian ethics.
3) In the Muslim world, corporal punishment is often used for infractions against scriptural law. Compare and contrast this view with that of the Puritans in the New World.
4) If punishment is supposed to hurt, why does it make some people horny?
Answer the discussion questions on your own paper. The assignment is due by Friday. Twenty points will be automatically deducted for late work. Inappropriate comments or sexual innuendo in your essays will be sincerely appreciated.
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I wonder, if we were to break down all Spanking Tube members into categories, what percentage would be in each of the following categories:
1. The DD relationship seeker. This is a person who wants to find a spanko they connect with and live happily ever after.
2. The celebrity wannabe (i.e. the people that want to be popular and or make a little money on the side.)
3. The curious, those just checking out the lifestyle for the first time.
4. The collector, the person that wants to spank or be spanked by as many people as possible.
5. The friend seeker. This is the person that just wants to talk with people about their fetish and not feel like a freak. They are likely not interested in meeting people in real life.
6. The video fan. The person that may or may not be in a relationship, but just comes on here for the pics and videos.
7. The couples. The ones who want to get their freak on with the help of visual aids.
8. The sex seeker. This is the person that hopes to give or get a few playful swats and then have sex the rest of the night.
9. The Top looking for a bottom or the bottom looking for a Top. These people do not want a romantic relationship, but they want spanking in their lives
10. Other...I'm sure I missed some people.
So anyone want to participate in my very unscientific, unreliable, and non-valid research study? Which "type" best fits you. I know many of us fit more than one category, so just pick the one that BEST describes you. Thanks.
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Does anyone think that starting a new "lifestyle" relationship is more complicated than starting a vanilla one? I recently met someone and we connected instantly. He's easy to talk to, he gets me and our spanko styles match perfectly (well kinda, he likes the hairbrush and I don't). But....like so many other lifestyle relationships, he's not local.
Do you think long distance relationships work (lifestyle or vanilla) and how do you get them to last?
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Views: 63 · Added: 14 hours ago
Aint been here in a while just saying hello to everyone! studying for my quiz tonight wish me luck!
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Can someone please tell me how to get this video to play
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for all your comments & contributions (especially Mike) to my blog yesterday.I haven’t got time to respond to all of them now but here’s another cynical & controversial offering:
Political party is just a fancy term for… gang; Policy is just a fancy term for… racket; Tax is just a fancy term for… protection money & Politician is just a fancy term for… crook!
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Thanks to Fuchsia and some of my other friends, I was able to recover a few of my old videos that hubby and I filmed years ago.
This is one of my old favorites!
It was so funny, people commented on this video saying we watch too much of that movie Baby Boy!!! hahahahahah lol Too funny!!!
I appreciate all the inboxes that i have been getting with links to my lost clips.
If anyone should see anymore, please let me know.
I will be adding a new video soon. (Maybe when my semester ends in the next few weeks). Well the video not "new", it was filmed last year but I never posted it. So it will be "new" to Spanking tube. lol
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Me and a friend here came to an understanding that wooden seats should be banned. Who would support a petition for that ?
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Yesterday, I had very emotional day. It was my son birthday and I was sad. I Know my son is fine but he had twin sister who passed away who also would have been 17 if she had live. I morn for her and I often wonder what she would be like today. I tried my hardest not to cry but the emotions just pour of me like waterfall. I am a very proud mother today. My 17 year old son is growing up and I am happy that he doing well for himself. I love that boy so much.
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So, yesterday, I was super productive. I paid bills, made doctor's appointments, attended meetings, corresponded with clients, did favors for my friends, did some research I needed to do, organized my life, networked, negotiated store credit for the return of party tickets I'm not going to use, etc. I did everything under the sun except prepare a PowerPoint for a five minute presentation I have to give on Monday. I just wasn't in the mood and I didn't feel well, so I didn't do it.
My Dom normally calls me five evenings out of seven every week. I was hoping He wouldn't call me last night and ask me whether I had put together the presentation. That would give me the opportunity to prepare it today and report that it was done. Just my luck, He called me last night and asked me. And I had to report that I had procrastinated - again.
Now He normally doesn't call me on Friday nights because He works late. But last night He just felt the need to call me during a break. It's like the man has radar or something for when I mess up. Ugh!
Do you ever get the feeling that your Top, Dom, Disciplinarian, HOH, hubby, wife or whatever knows when you are naughty like Santa Claus?
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He said that I'd be sorry if he heard that word again.
I pointed out he says it all the time.
He went to get the razor strop and didn't stop at ten,
To teach me that such logic is a crime.
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My daughter's new onesy that I got her
Think I will have her wear it next time my mother visits lol
It was too perfect not to buy
And a lot of the time I feel this way
especially when my mother yells at me that my daughter has too much stuff, then the next day goes out and spends tons of money on new toys and clothes for my daughter
Sometimes I do wish I could spank her lol
God bless the referendum that will liberate our land.
I voted in the shower with my patriotic hand.
'Cause papa bear is calling and I had to take a stand!
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And one tough cookie hehe :-P
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March 27th is my 33rd birthday......who wants to come visit that weekend and give me their own birthday swats? LOL :0)
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We live life in the hope of a golden tomorrow that never comes in spite of the random malevolence of Fate.
Apart from a few close relatives & friends nobody really gives a shit about you.
Without seriously pissing off those that can & will do you harm always put yourself & those that you love & value first.
Love, for better or worse, is an addiction – sometimes it can be cured; sometimes it can’t.
Never do things that will either make you feel guilty later or will likely lead to hassle.
Modesty (humility) is the most attractive form of vanity & we are all vain in one form or the other.
Hypocrisy, cowardice, greed, lust, ego, love & theft are the pillars of society when you really think about it – they hold it together… just.
Right is might in all its diverse forms.
Nobody owes you anything in this world, remember that, & conversely you don’t owe anybody anything in this world – unless it suits you to do so.
Death only happens to other people as my ego cannot comprehend a world in which I don’t exist.
Pleasure is the discharge of tension: Freud.
There are only two tragedies in life: one is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it: Oscar Wilde.
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If you've seen my wall tonight you'll know that I've been trawling through my favorites and that I settled on 'Whipped on a bench'.
I accept that its impossible for a man to experience life in the same way as a woman experiences life, particularly the physical life, though there must be similarities. But sexually? I remember once, vividly imagining that i had a vagina, and the experience of feeling a penis enter. Now I know you're thinking that this was some kind of anal thing but it really wasn't. I'm as sure as I can be that the experience was at least close.
I've never been whipped though I have been caned.And I can imagine the build up of sensations which might lead to the orgasm this woman experienced. That sigh of relief at the end, of satisfaction.
However, though the first time I was ever spanked by a woman (a stranger), I did get an erection, probably because I was laying across her bare legs, it's never happened since, and certainly didn't happen when the school slipper was stinging my bottom. Thinking about these events did, does, give me an erection, but to be whipped to an orgasm...?
Just as I'll never know what its like to have an orgasm which tightens round a penis, so I'll never know what its like to be spanked until I have an orgasm.
I'd like to know, though.....
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This was suppose to be the big weekend. I was going to go visit my sister and her husband for the weekend and then on Monday I was going to get my first spanking in 7 long lonely years. I was excited and terrified all at the same time. I thought I was going to be ready and willing to go. I kept giving myself little pep talks on how, "this is what you have been waiting for, don't chicken out, you'll feel so much better after you can feel that sting and warmth on your bottom."
It's not happening. I am OK with it. I completely understand that the man who is going to eventually spank me had some very important things come up and we had to postpone until a later date. As it happens it is really going to work out good for me too. I have my other sister and her boyfriend coming to visit me and they are going to take me out for dinner and drinks. They are so much fun and I have had a long hard week with my trip to urgent care for my leg leg that I think I deserve to go out and have a good time.
The sun is shinning and the rain has stopped. I just got my hair cut and colored and I feel like going out and having some fun for a change. I hope you all have a wonderful weekend and hopefully someone will be getting a spanking even if it's not me lol.
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I want to know what would you use to spank me because im been very bad.